Everything you want lives right beyond your edge.
I’ll take you there.
For humans hungry for more life.
More truth. More intimacy. More power. More freedom. More pleasure. More aliveness.
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What comes next in your life asks something different of you.
And deep down, you know it.
A desire you haven’t fully claimed. A truth you haven’t said out loud. A conversation you keep avoiding. A level of intimacy you haven’t surrendered into. A part of your power you haven’t fully inhabited. A life you can feel is possible - but haven’t yet been willing to live.
That’s the edge.
The place where your deepest truth meets the patterns, protections, identities, and strategies that have kept your current reality neatly intact.
And that’s where we work.
I don’t want to help you understand your life better. I want to help you actually live it.
You probably already know a lot about yourself. Your patterns. Your history. Where you consistently get stuck.
You may even know exactly what you want.
But knowing what you want and living it are two very different things. My work is about closing that gap.
I get close.
I listen for what’s underneath the words. I notice where your energy changes, where your body says yes before your mind catches up, where you contract, fake it, negotiate, disappear, or stop yourself in your own tracks. And then we go there.
Through conversation. Through the body. Through relationship. Through experience. Through desire.
I’m not interested in endlessly circling the thing. And I bet you aren’t either.
I’m interested in helping you cross the edge and discover the life that is waiting for you on the other side of it.
At some point, you can’t think your way into the next version of your life. The edge is where your truth gets harder to ignore.
I’ve spent my life studying what makes people come alive.
For more than two decades, I’ve helped people get closer to what they actually want.
In leadership. In love. In the body. In rooms full of people. In marriages. In moments of reinvention. In the private discreet places where you know your life can no longer stay the same.
My work draws from leadership, embodiment, intimacy, desire, relational dynamics, experience design, and years of sitting very close to human beings as they tell the truth.
I know what it takes to get real.
Whether that means asking you the question no one else will ask.
Or getting you out of your head and into your body where you’ve been afraid to go.
Or helping you say the thing you’ve been swirling around in your head for weeks (or years).
Or giving you a big ol’ permission slip to want much, much more than you are allowing yourself to have.
I’m not here to tell you how to live.
I’m here to help you to see so clearly that you can no longer pretend you don’t know.
And I will walk beside you as you do something about it.
WHAT I DO
I help people get closer to what they actually want.
It doesn’t particularly matter where the desire lives.
Love. Work. Leadership. Sex. Creativity. Money. Power. Relationship. Freedom. A second act. A completely different life.
The territory changes. But the work underneath it is often remarkably similar.
We get clear about what you actually want.
We find the places where you stop yourself from having it.
And we build the capacity to get, hold and receive more of the life you’re asking for.
And I go there with you.
How we get there
The Methodology
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Desire Intelligence
Before we can move toward what you want, we need to know what you actually want.
Not what makes sense. Not what looks good. Not what keeps everyone else comfortable. Not the desire shaped by fear, conditioning, duty, or who you’ve learned you’re supposed to be.
We listen beneath the noise.
We find the thing with life in it. The desire beneath the desire. The thing you know when nobody else is in the room.
Desire gives us direction.
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Body Intelligence
Your body is giving you information all the time.
About what you want. About what you don’t want. About where you are free. About exactly what happens when you get close to the thing you say you want.
Where do you tighten? Perform? Please? Control? Disappear? Go numb? Pull away? Leak energy? Make yourself smaller?
Together, we may talk, move, feel, breathe, shake, dance, play, confront, touch, practice, or dig.
We pay attention to where there is life. Where there is contraction. Where there is protection. Where the words and the body are telling two different stories.
The body tells us what’s true.
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Relational Intelligence
There are places we cannot reach alone.
Being deeply seen, met, challenged, and accompanied gives us access to parts of ourselves that are difficult to encounter in isolation.
Relationship isn’t just where the work gets witnessed. Relationship is part of the work.
It’s where our patterns become visible. Where we practice telling the truth. Where we risk being known. Where we discover what happens when we stay connected instead of abandoning ourselves.
One-to-one or inside a group, we can often go farther, deeper, and wider together than we can alone.
Relationship helps us become capable of going there.
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
LIONESS
For ambitious women at the edge of their next chapter.
For women who have already built lives, achieved things, become capable as hell, and can feel that another chapter is asking something more of them.
Lioness is about becoming more deeply self-led. In leadership. In love. In desire. In power. In how you choose. In what you tolerate. In what you create next.
Through retreats, private work, immersive experiences and groups, Lioness helps women stop overriding what they already know and build lives large enough to hold who they are becoming.
BODY POETRY
For individuals and couples ready to explore the truth living beneath words.
The body has a language of its own. Sensation. Impulse. Desire. Pleasure. Emotion. Protection. Longing.
Body Poetry is an intimate relational and somatic practice that gives that language room to speak.
Through touch, movement, sensation, emotional expression, deep presence and experiential practice, we explore what your body is holding, where it wants to go and what becomes possible when it is fully met.
PRIVATE WORK
For the thing that doesn’t fit neatly inside a box.
I work privately with a small number of individuals, couples and leaders navigating significant edges.
These engagements are highly bespoke.
They may look like an intensive, an advisory relationship, a private experience, a retreat or something we design specifically around the moment you are in.
Want to bring this work into a room?
I speak, teach and facilitate immersive experiences around embodied leadership, desire, human connection, relational intelligence, power, intimacy and aliveness.
For organizations, conferences, leadership teams, communities and gatherings that want something more alive than another presentation.
THIS IS EXPERIENTIAL WORK
Sometimes insight is the answer.
Sometimes insight is the thing keeping you stuck.
We may talk. We may move.
We may work with sensation, strategy, desire, emotion, pleasure, resistance, leadership, grief, power or play.
You may tell a truth you have avoided for ten years.
You may discover that the problem you have spent years trying to fix isn’t actually the problem.
You may find that your body has known the answer for a very long time.
I don’t work from one prescribed modality.
I use what the person, relationship, group or moment in front of me actually requires.
Because the goal isn’t endless self-improvement.
The goal is becoming capable of inhabiting more of your life.